POLITENESS
Politeness has been well defined as benevolence in trifles. It is the desire to put those whom we meet perfectly
at their ease, and save them from every kind of petty discomfort and annoyance. The limited part of
benevolence called politeness requires only an inclination to make them happy temporarily, while they are in
our presence, and when this can be done without any sacrifice on our part or only with a slight sacrifice of
personal comfort.
Politeness is said to be one of the important characteristics of civilised person. Politeness is the art of choosing
among your thoughts. It must be implemented in every walk of life. When we deal with people elder to us, we
are polite. But an honest polite person is polite with everyone, people of lower status, workers and even
children. Not only with humans but also with animals we must be polite as they are our helpers.
Politeness is a skill. Like any other skill, you can master it with practice. The greatest enemy of politeness is
ego. To be a polite person, you have to sacrifice your ego. It is difficult for an egoist to be polite. You have to
imply politeness in your thinking, speech and actions. Actions work more than words. Polite actions will give
fine results. Politeness will reduce your stress and boost you to be productive. Apart from your present benefits,
you protect your future. Being polite makes you mentally healthy. In our daily life we come across many
incidents with people nearby and ourselves.
Different rules of behaviour have to be observed, accordingly as we are in the street or in the drawing room,
at home or at school, in the company of friends or of strangers. There is also to be considered the great
diversity of social etiquette which distinguishes one country from another.
Politeness, besides being a duty that we owe to others, is a valuable possession for ourselves. It costs nothing,
and yet may in many cases bring much profit. The great advantage of this excellence of conduct was very
clearly expressed by Dr. Johnson, when he said that the difference between a well-bred and an ill-bred man
is that one immediately attracts your liking, the other your dislike.
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the desire to put those whom we meet perfectly at ease
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