PSYCHOLOGICAL QUESTION
❤ Define LOVE
Answers
Love is a feeling which we all experience at all points in life.
It’s not just the love for the opposite sex but also for our friends and family.
Love knows no boundaries and we have seen a number of cases in the recent past where people of completely different backgrounds fell in love with each other.
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This is an answer to the previous question i asked... sorry for this actually isn't a question but this is th eonly way i found to express my views..
Ye pyaar kya hota hai? oo...too filmy ha... its even more like a serious dialogue... why does this question even comeover?? hmm.... we can't actually define it just like we define a book or a pen... Pyaar ye hota hai...vo hota hai.. Kya hota hai??
How did we define it? Books se pada?... or kisine bola? or movies me deka? Kese patha chala hai ki ye pyaar hai?? Oh man!! i think i am being too dramatic.... But listen, we can't define love unless and until we ourselves are dictionaries.. We get to know what it is when u experience it!!!! When u feel it..when u r in it...
I have seen many and many people defining love... some google it down and copy paste an answer....some give an example of parent love... or brother sister love... or some puppy love.....and till infinity! I have mostly seen people giving an example of motherly love for it... Are my friends, let me tell u one thing, when u r giving an example of mother's love, we say, they take care of us, they sacrifice everthing for us, that is why their love is purest..... But listen, Thats not love... see, when u r born, and ur parents are in a room, while the doc is bringing u to them, and the time vo tumko hath me lethe hai, they take u to their heart and they feel, "Ye mera hai....mera bacha hai ye, He is from me, a part of me.. he's just ours.." What can u see in this? "Mera" mine... in this, love is just there its not brought up, u r not giving birth to it... ur mom knows u r her's u r a part of her, u r her love there is no need for developing specially for u..u already have a place in her heart.... Pyaar hua hai vaha , kiya nai....... Ye hai pyaar.... i didn't say or motherlylove is purest or brotherly love is purest.... love mei pure impure... itni pyaar, utni pyaar..ye sab measurements aur tests nai hote... are ma ya bro, ya dosth, ya ladki ya ladka, ya anyoneone in this world, whoever u love, kya farak padtha hai. its all love just like a pen for instance, a pen is a pen, fill in different colors, and still its just a pen, but the difference comes when u have a need, u when u know, or need a black pen, not a red one, so black becomes important to u, when u need Blue one, it becomes important everthing is just a pen, and u just give importance when u r with it but u have this thing called pen.. so a little bit similar is love, u don't "NEED" love but its like something natural, u have it, and there is ntg to grow it, or pyaar karne ki cheej nai hai...
I repeat, when u know something is urs, its urs and u needn't fight for it, u needn't try die-hard to get it, u know uts urs, even if its with someone else, someone else is having it, u still know, its urs..... Vo jo trust, aur confidence us pyaar pe hai, vo kabhi thodtha nai hai... its not born, its not destroyed... Its just there, bas hota hai.....and and don't ask me abt girl boy love... becuz, its just a division of love, its not the sole place where love exists yis universe mei itne sare planets hai, usme se earth bahut special hai...love ka range infifnity hai, usme se ye opposite do opposite genders ka pyaar kuch special hai...bas!....and i don't wanna talk abt difference between attractions and lve, because, some or the other day a person will surely know what is the difference between them even if i say, many don't understand, and disagree...but there will be one day when they know... u might be 13 or 30 or sometimes even 60..it depends...
and i was asking abt this happiness... are even this thing can't be defined or brought from somewhere, u just will be Happy when u with something uu love, something u feel its urs, it might be when u buy a new bicycle, it might be when u give to someone, or when u r with someone, or by the work u do, or just because u r living, are there are infinity reasons why a person is happy... and there are infinity ways to be happy.... that won't come when someone suggest u to do this particular thing or that particular thing so that u will be happy.. u know how to be happy, and u also know how,, its just that, u don't know how to grab it..Its all urs, just take it!!
So buddies, thats how i feel love is... i don't want to tell u this exactly is it..i just wanted to show a path , of how u need to know what things are..
Hope u get something out of it, tht makes me super happy!!!
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//sorry for any hindi grammer mistakes, my mother toungue's not hindi...