#psychology
Ok so when someone feels like you wanna have so much achievement in life , develop skills so much n be urself fully!! But still you can't even put up urself to initial step of trying too, n like u r not even in a mood to/ or u r not able to start even!! So what could be suggested to them?
like how to pursue life and how to achieve goals with the same enthusiasm, as that of with which had started....so that at some point in life they wont feel, like whats the use of it, let it b!!
anyone ?
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Be their friends tell them and make them belive that u r also in situations like them grow their esteem help them support them go against their thinking and make them understand why u r against their thinking....
ritz24:
how can i make them think, that there thinking about them or their situations is not right? any example?
there are some other tips too
like you have to love what youre doing... many people are scared of chemistry in class 11.. but i always had the mindset that i loved chemistry.. and hence i am good in chem
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i have faced problem with this... i finally have the solution.. it came from a lot of experiments.. it started last year on may... when i finally decided to change it all.. there are many tips which i would first like to mention..
1. 2 mins rule... when you think about doing anything.. just think that you will do it only for 2 mins.. then you would actually be able to do it for longer....
2.. just do it.. whenever you think about studying... just do it.. if you think then your mind will stop you... so don't think just do it...
3. everything is in your mind... all the thoughts of boredom, laziness, failure.. is in your brain... they are just feelings and you can overcome them by training.. whenever you feel so.. say to yourself. its just my brain...
ive also done other things... have atleast 30 mins per day for yourself when you talk to yourself where you say to yourself what you want to do in life...
i have listen to a lot of motivational videos and read books like how to control subconscious mind..
4. have a pleasure time.. no one can juat study or do hardwork all the time.. you have to give yourself pleasure.. but remember there is a specific time.. pull yourself up when the time is finished....
life is easy.... be the best
1. 2 mins rule... when you think about doing anything.. just think that you will do it only for 2 mins.. then you would actually be able to do it for longer....
2.. just do it.. whenever you think about studying... just do it.. if you think then your mind will stop you... so don't think just do it...
3. everything is in your mind... all the thoughts of boredom, laziness, failure.. is in your brain... they are just feelings and you can overcome them by training.. whenever you feel so.. say to yourself. its just my brain...
ive also done other things... have atleast 30 mins per day for yourself when you talk to yourself where you say to yourself what you want to do in life...
i have listen to a lot of motivational videos and read books like how to control subconscious mind..
4. have a pleasure time.. no one can juat study or do hardwork all the time.. you have to give yourself pleasure.. but remember there is a specific time.. pull yourself up when the time is finished....
life is easy.... be the best
i appriciate ur suggestions, but how would one deal with decision making problem, when all this has hampered them for so long n now all they could think of is like "nothing is of any use, like they dont find motive of oin anything anymore" as if everything is useless,... any suggestions to this ?
this happens.. when finally you have wasted. ..a huge amount of time... but did you really lost everything....it is true that the hardest part of losing is starting again... but it is not the end... make it your new start... if you give your fullest and love what you do... then you will accomplish anything... and remember its not too late its never too late
so basically, you wanna say, like what ever possibility one finds, they should pursue it? n what if they dont find anything which interests them, n like they know that they can do any course in career, if they had to do it, for the sake of doin it, without interst but like they can't find stuff of there interest. and on the career point of view, its too late to opt something else!! i hope i make my view clear!
lets give an example.... i got 9.6 cgpa in 10 th for real... then i opt for science in 11. most people thinks that 11 will be just a bit harder than 10.. they are fully wrong.. till class 10 you were just learning basics and class 11 will be hell for you if you don't prepare for it from the starting... my friends who took commerce were enjoying much more than me.. i felt bad.. you know what i actually started loving science... even though its hard.. its fun. loving made it much easier
okii
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