Question

Q2
Why are we sometimes not able to say why we quarrelled​

Answer 1

You learn so much about a person when you disagree or have a dispute with them. You learn much about yourself as well. One of the things you learn is how well you grasp God’s forgiveness in your life.

Are you able to offer forgiveness when you are wronged? Your ability to forgive someone else directly correlates to your own understanding of God’s forgiveness (see Matthew 18:23–35Open in Logos Bible Software (if available)). When you understand you have been forgiven much, you will be able to forgive much. When you understand you have been forgiven little, you will be able to forgive little.

A quarrel will measure humility.

I was wrong.

Those are three powerful words. But those are words that are difficult to speak. How many quarrels happen because we cannot bring ourselves to say those three words?

James speaks much about humility. It is pride that gets in the way and sets up a barrier to peace. We are a stubborn people.

A quarrel is often not worth winning.