she didn't know how to live in a joint family (complex)
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Explanation:
I don’t think joint families benefit even all the men – for example, fathers of Indian girl children do not benefit from Patriarchy, they are not even seen as Senior Citizens. Ever heard someone complain about lack of elder care from their sons in law (Jamai Raja) or from paraya dhan?
Patriarchal Joint Families empower Parents of sons (i.e. future all powerful in laws), to control how girl children are viewed, raised, educated, controlled, protected, valued, disinherited, hated and killed in the Indian society. For most Indians, the paraya dhan are with the parents only until they go to their ‘own home, which is their future spouse’s parents’ home.
The sense of entitlement of the future in laws of Indian Paraya Dhan is rarely questioned. Until recently the parents of Indian daughters felt they had no option but to teach the girl to somehow make the best of the situation, please, obey, see happiness in suffering and abuse, and accept lack of freedom and happiness as her destiny.(Divorce, widowhood or remaining single were not permitted to women). Some parents of paraya dhan send their daughters to schools that train them to be obedient, mostly the training is provided at home.
The idea is so deep rooted, that they fail to see women, probably in their own neighborhood, living happy lives – doing, wearing, opining, driving, eating, drinking what they like (despite patriarchal moral policing) and living happy lives.
This is why rigidly patriarchal societies like India and China hate and kill future non-men (girl children).