Question

should the relation between a parent and child be distant and formal or should it be close and warm? give your views and explanation

Answer 1

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According to me, the relation between a parent and child should be formal. Apparently I'm not saying that childrens should be away from their parents but a human behaviour is not easy to predict.

At one moment, we'll be like sharing all the problems with our parents and the second moment we will treat them as they are our enemy.

And same with the parents also, for once they'll encourage other's children for other curricular activities while they won't allow their children. Reason : They want their children to be more educated.

But what's the loss between both the situation is the distance increases and the younger generation thinks that parents are enemy while parents think their offspring are disrespecting them.

I ain't supporting the statement that parents shouldn't get aware of our problems. They should but what if we don't get any solution to it rather than getting scolded. So the only relation that can be shared is the formal one.

Personally, I haven't seen any parent and children bond more friendly, close and warm as everyone say. I myself don't share everything and infact oppose my parents view regarding me and therefore my views differ.

PS : Above explanation is a sort of my point of view and so no offense to anyone's thinking.

Thanks!

Answer 2

Obviously it should be close and warm . there is no better relation than a family . but in some cases there is a need of formal and distant relation , mostly in the cases of divorces or step mom or dad .

Otherwise the love , protection , care and support we get from our parents is unconditional .

THESE ARE MY VIEWS .BUT IT MAY VARY FROM PERSON TO PERSON OR DEPENDING UPON SITUATIONS....

THANKS....HOPE ITS HELPFUL.....