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- Forgiving means being vulnerable again. But by punishing, victims may feel strengthened and sufficiently confident to risk being vulnerable one more time, so they can forgive.
- ... Although victims don't necessarily set out to make an offender feel bad, guilt is often an outcome, making talking the punishment.
Explanation:
Dear One - understand that Forgiveness is for your own good. Until you don’t forgive, the thoughts of resentment and revenge occupy rent free space in your mind. Once you decide that you would forgive someone, you free your mind and the space in your heart, which is an infinite well of love to bring in more love into your being. Imagine that, with every thought of revenge or punishment, you’re reducing the space in your heart to that extent from accommodating love.
What will you ultimately gain with revenge or by punishing someone - more guilt with time because the feeling that you punished someone will always be there, though you may pacify your ego. Ask yourself the question is EGO the part of GOD or is SACHIN a fragment of GOD. When you’re able to find an answer to this question, forgiveness will come easily.
Also, understand that Forgiveness is for your own good and if it is difficult for you to forgive, simply be willing to forgive and keep affirming “ I Choose to forgive____________(name of the person) for my highest good and as I forgive him/her I bring more love into my life.