This is my last Question . why some people wants to live Alone in there life . ???Reason
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Often the child who has taken care of an aging parent will continue to live in the family home long after the parent has moved onto a care facility or even death. Their reason for doing so could be a comforting habit along with childhood memories. They may not want another person involved because that incoming energy would upset their equilibrium.
In the case of bereavement, both men and women are advised not to make any longterm changes in their living environment until at least a year has passed. I know of a situation, whereby, two sisters moved into the the home of the younger and more recently widowed. The younger one had serious financial issues and couldn't afford to maintain the property. The older one was more financially sound, sold her home and invested a considerable amount in upgrades and essential repairs. The arrangement bred a load of resentment and two bitter old ladies had to endure each other until one of them died.
Spouses who have been abandoned by their partners are more inclined to hang onto the remnants of their marriage and I've heard of cases where mutual finances were badly eroded and bankruptcy loomed but both parties continued to be stubborn. Divorcees who have endured long marriages with difficult partners are also more inclined to live alone where they can luxuriate in having a free choice over how they live.
The single lifestyle also appeals to those who prefer their own company. That's not to say they are anti-social, it's just that they prefer things to remain where they left them.
For people who require a lot of time for themselves -- artists, writers and professions where ambience is essential for their creativity, the solitary existence is preferable. I know of artists who work constantly for several days without sleep and then crash, and that, for a partner or room-mate would be difficult to deal with.
My reasoning for living this way is quite simple. For many years I cared for my father as he slowly became more ill. After his passing, I was alone in a big house, where I remain to this day. It has been this way for three years. In this time I grew use to this way of being and all that goes with it. There are times when I am lonely in this house,but, they soon pass and once more I am at peace. I have become use to the idea of being able to come and go at my own will without having to wait on another. One lives the way they desire when alone. In time this becomes them in every sense of the way of living. Any negatives that one has in them through this type of living is nothing compared to the positives that you will posess through this chosen path in your life. I suppose the freedoms one has in this way of living is the best way to speak of it all.