Very often, you feel proud and happy about yourself because of certain things you have done. Identify two things you did, which made you feel proud and happy about yourself. Also, draw and decorate the trophies or badges you achieved for each of two things.
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Its very very long.
I am a Hindu girl from Hyderabad. It was around two years back, I was in love with a Muslim guy. It was a long distance-relationship. I was studying my Final year MBBS when i was in love with this person.
My love for him seemed to have no limits. no boundaries. It grew and deepened and consumed me. Every inch of my body ached for him. We used to say that our LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL. We had all kinds of talks. We met often. We really had a happy life for almost a year. We knew our differences in religion would create problem to us and to many in future. We will have to struggle very hard for the success.
We both are from a middle class family. Both our parents have sacrificed so many things for us. We know how hard it was for our parents to raise us with all financial constraints.
His parents started to search for matches for him. We decided to tell about our love to our families. He had to explain about our love first in his home.
He told me that he had just shown my photo and explained that we are of different religion. Their parents said a big NO at the beginning itself. He tried convincing his parents but it was of no use.
One fine day, even without the knowledge of my boyfriend, his parents arranged for an engagement. Once the entire function was over, he told me about this. He sent me the girl’s photo as well. I was totally shattered after this. I never expected that he would agree for marriage etc etc. He convinced me telling that its just engagement, we can still try. He gave me hopes that we can fight together. I had complete trust on him.
But still i was feeling bad. I felt that everything was over. I cried for days weeks. I used to tell him that its the time to depart and its not good to be in contact also. I do not want to spoil an another girl’s life and her dreams. But he always said that he loved me and insisted me to stay with him. I said that everything was going against his will. His parents threatened him if he speaks anything more about me, his mother would hand to death. We both were scared. We were not aware of doing anything.
I felt that he was acting like a coward. He didn't have gutts to talk to his parents. Parents will threaten in all ways but will never go against their child’s happiness. They might be angry but they wish for their children’s happiness. MY guy couldn't understand this.
I had already started my House Surgeon-ship in my hospital and I was posted in Dept of Gen Medicine. As i was in a Govt hospital, patient load was very high and hence the work load.
I decided that I need to make people aware of our love to everyone and stop this proposal extending till marriage. I created a new Facebook profile and posted a photo with him and me together and tagged him on the photo. I wouldn't have done this if he was ready for this proposal. But everything was going against him. everyone were just forcing him.
This created a big issue. A very big one. I didn't know it would happen that big. It became a very big issue only because his marriage was fixed and it was only two days after the day i posted the pic.
He didn't tell me anything about this. everyone got to know that its something fishy. Everyone started asking who is that girl. He finally called me and scolded me. He told that if the girl’s side people call, then say we are just friends bla bla bla or else my mother will die. I didn't know what to do. I just avoided all calls on that day. Next day I tried calling my boyfriend. Someone else received the call. That man started scolding me like anything. he started scolding my parents also. And he asked me to come to Hyderabad and take my guy and go. they said that he is house arrested and will be further forced to marry another girl etc etc. They threatened me in such a way that my boyfriend was in some danger and he will be out of danger only after i go there.
I did not say anything at my home. I myself started from Bangalore to Hyderabad in bus. I didn't eat anything whole day. I reached Hyderabad at night 10 30. I had never traveled anywhere alone and Hyderabad was a new place for me. I didn't bother about my parents who did so much for me, I didn't care about my profession, I didn't care about anyone except him. In fact I was even ready to accept Islam.
I didn't know if it is safe to go alone to meet them as whole family was angry on me. I didn't know that i would come back. Just leaving everything i reached Hyderabad.
They were angry on me but they were good by heart. They listened to everything I said. It was then I realized that he had never told about me in his home. He himself bought all jewels for the girl and bought all dresses etc etc worth a lakh happily. He had never uttered a word about me in his house.