Question

Views on girls should learn all house work but not boys

Answer 1

No. Definitely not. Even if we lived in a world where wives happily did all the chores around the house, what about all the boys who will grow up and not marry, or who will marry other men? Who is going to do their laundry? Who is going to do their dishes?

A fully functioning adult should be able to manage all household chores as a matter of course.

And the thing is, we don’t live in a world where wives happily do all the chores. At least in my country, women are as likely to work outside of the home as men are, but there is still an expectation that they will do the bulk of the household chores. This leads to resentment, hostility, and ultimately the breakdown of many marriages.

My husband does some chores, and we both work full time. This left me to do the bulk of the chores, and in particular the chores he didn’t like. We’ve owned our house for almost six years and he’d cleaned a toilet exactly five times in the time we’ve lived here.

We finally sat down and had a discussion about it. When he leaves things for me to do, it shows disrespect and that he doesn’t value me as an equal. Toilets don’t get cleaned by magic fairies. If a chore is unpleasant it doesn’t just go away—someone has to do it, and that someone ends up being me.

Which means the literally hundreds of other times that toilet got cleaned—that was me cleaning it. And the same thing with all of the other myriad chores around the house. The person sweeping every day was me. The person doing most of the laundry was me. The person filling and emptying the dishwasher, cleaning the counters, cleaning up after our dog and cat, making beds, cleaning the tub, scrubbing floors… all of that was me.

When he got home from work he’d relax, but when I got home from work I would work some more. It wasn’t fair, and I wasn’t willing to continue that way, so we figured out ways to make things work for us. That means he has stuff to do around the house, but so do I. We have a much better balance now, and I feel appreciated. And when I feel more relaxed and less stressed we can do more things together and find ways to be happy together. Yes, he has to do more around the house, but he also lives here and makes a mess. It’s only fair and logical that he also helps to clean it.

Happy spouse, happy house.

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Answer 2

You should write against it... Because everyone whether it is a girl or boy will face a time in their lives when they would need to do all sorts of works...