W 3. Work in pairs and write a short paragraph on the topic given below.
Imagine that you are Terry's friend. How you would console a sad and confused Terry?
Answers
1. Be There for Them
We show up for the people we care about. Being there for someone can mean a lot of things, but most importantly: make sure you remain present throughout (and after) their crisis.
2. Tell Them (and Show) That You Love Them
Those three little words, “I love you,” can make a bigger impact than you know. During a difficult time, your family member or friend needs all the love they can get.
Beyond expressing your love with words, your actions can speak volumes as well. Offer to help out around the house, start a fundraiser, or give a thoughtful gift. It’s important to consider something practical that they would find useful or reminds them of a more positive time in their lives.
3. Let Them Know You’re Thinking of Them
Letting your loved one know they’re on your mind or in your prayers is a thoughtful gesture for someone who needs some consolation. If your loved one is OK with it and would appreciate this gesture, consider starting a prayer chain for them. It can be a powerful symbol of the support all around them.
4. Take Time to Listen
Showing up for someone is more than just what you say: it’s how well you listen. When your loved one is going through a difficult time, they may just need someone to ask them how they are really doing, and give them their full attention.