what are 10 commandments of speaking
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⏩Thou shalt listen first.
To communicate in a way that others understand, you have to learn what's on their minds, first. That's why listening is so important.
Active listening involves asking questions, along with concentrated effort to understand your partner's answers--all while resisting the urge to judge. When you regularly and skillfully listen to others, you stay in touch with their reality. You become quickly aware of the other person's highs and lows, and how they are dealing with them. Further, you send the message that what's important to them is important to you.
Your opinion then carries more weight, because it's based on reality--your partner's reality.
⏩II. Thou shalt show empathy.
When others tell you their story, endeavor to understand their thought process and see the world from their perspective. (This is called cognitive empathy.)
Sometimes, you'll think: "Well, that's not such a big deal. I wouldn't feel the same way if I faced those circumstances." When this happens, try to think of a time when you did feel like your partner. (This is called affective or emotional empathy.) Then, think of what might help you in that scenario--or even better, what would help your partner, based on what you know about them.
⏩III. Thou shalt focus on the positive.r
Dwelling on the negative in others is a surefire way to breed contempt and close someone's ears to your own message. Therefore, focus on the positive in others by:
Telling them what you appreciate about them
Finding common ground, even if you disagree
Laying this foundation first makes your partners more willing to hear dissenting or (constructively) critical opinions later
⏩IV. Thou shalt be sincere.
When praising, don't flatter or praise superficial qualities. Be genuine regarding what you appreciate about others. When sharing negative feedback, don't beat around the bush or water it down. Rather, communicate out of a desire to help--and that motive will become obvious to your partner.
⏩V. Thou shalt be specific.
People aren't mind-readers. Therefore, don't just tell others you appreciate them or that something bothers you; tell them specifically what you appreciate, or what needs to change--and why. (Of course, if it's negative, communicating with tact and grace will make your message easier to accept.)