What is it to be an introvert?
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To an introvert, nothing is different.
Nothing except the happiness in moving of vehicles and groups of people past them, how the lonely rain could be the most calming thing ever, and how beautiful the world is when we are alone.
An introvert's mind perceives everything a little differently. Not everyone can understand how we feel, that might be because we can't express it, or because we choose not to understand. It is very difficult to explain how it feels.
Sometimes it's beautiful. When we're alone, we're always afraid of loneliness. But being alone doesn't always mean loneliness. Though cliched, to an introvert, it means a safe haven. It's quite nice to be able to be left to your own little bubble and observe the outside world. Comparing my feeble self to this great, giant world I am in. It creates a kind of sensation that makes my spine tingle. A thankfulness that I'm alive to witness this, and a fear that I am also a cause for this.
I feel scared when someone approaches me. I feel confused about how to act. I spend so much time being alone and observing others that sometimes I can see right through a person's expression. It scares me because I don't know how to act despite knowing the truth. I try to smile and wish to be alone, because when I'm alone, I can wonder about reality and sigh loudly when I think about silly things.
Being an introvert doesn't mean that we're loners. It means that we can't sympathize with everyone, because we don't know how it feels to be them. We know how different we are, and that is why there are only a few people who can accept us as we are. It's like being an ant walking through a crowd of crickets.
I feel overwhelmed and crushed by the weight of the world around me. Each time I'm outside, I have a rush of emotions I can't control, and the inability to do so takes over me very fast. I lose courage and depend on books and internet, where I don't have to reveal myself and can enjoy life for what it is.
Everyone has thoughts. And we keep most to ourselves. Being able to relate and retaliate to a peaceful mind and think over something that makes you feel pleasant is actually very nice, nicer than going out on adventures to embarrass myself.
I can't say this is all based on our growth or past, since our brains are wired to perceive things differently. Introverts feel better knowing that their thoughts are happy and protected, while extroverts would want to express their feelings to make them feel better.
People love to be listened to, so generally people thank us or say they're grateful for having someone who can listen to them yap for hours and not complain.
I get asked if I'm mad or if something happened a lot of times. People don't really realize that I just need space and more time to be myself, and so they invade that very space and take the time needed to be myself asking me about myself. I understand the concern, but really, when someone is trying their best to stand against the strong currents of this deep river with fishes for the whole day, they should be left alone.
I appreciate company as well! If you want to be around me, don't mind if I don't speak and don't force me to act different, I am perfectly fine. People don't realize that not everyone is the same, and if you give us the time, we can be great friends too!
Of course, we're happy being involved as long as we're not supposed to be a major part of the reason. But when we do find the right person, we can talk until the end of time. Because of observing and taking in so much from our surroundings, we have much more to share. And a little talk always relieves us, because we're humans too!
Nothing except the happiness in moving of vehicles and groups of people past them, how the lonely rain could be the most calming thing ever, and how beautiful the world is when we are alone.
An introvert's mind perceives everything a little differently. Not everyone can understand how we feel, that might be because we can't express it, or because we choose not to understand. It is very difficult to explain how it feels.
Sometimes it's beautiful. When we're alone, we're always afraid of loneliness. But being alone doesn't always mean loneliness. Though cliched, to an introvert, it means a safe haven. It's quite nice to be able to be left to your own little bubble and observe the outside world. Comparing my feeble self to this great, giant world I am in. It creates a kind of sensation that makes my spine tingle. A thankfulness that I'm alive to witness this, and a fear that I am also a cause for this.
I feel scared when someone approaches me. I feel confused about how to act. I spend so much time being alone and observing others that sometimes I can see right through a person's expression. It scares me because I don't know how to act despite knowing the truth. I try to smile and wish to be alone, because when I'm alone, I can wonder about reality and sigh loudly when I think about silly things.
Being an introvert doesn't mean that we're loners. It means that we can't sympathize with everyone, because we don't know how it feels to be them. We know how different we are, and that is why there are only a few people who can accept us as we are. It's like being an ant walking through a crowd of crickets.
I feel overwhelmed and crushed by the weight of the world around me. Each time I'm outside, I have a rush of emotions I can't control, and the inability to do so takes over me very fast. I lose courage and depend on books and internet, where I don't have to reveal myself and can enjoy life for what it is.
Everyone has thoughts. And we keep most to ourselves. Being able to relate and retaliate to a peaceful mind and think over something that makes you feel pleasant is actually very nice, nicer than going out on adventures to embarrass myself.
I can't say this is all based on our growth or past, since our brains are wired to perceive things differently. Introverts feel better knowing that their thoughts are happy and protected, while extroverts would want to express their feelings to make them feel better.
People love to be listened to, so generally people thank us or say they're grateful for having someone who can listen to them yap for hours and not complain.
I get asked if I'm mad or if something happened a lot of times. People don't really realize that I just need space and more time to be myself, and so they invade that very space and take the time needed to be myself asking me about myself. I understand the concern, but really, when someone is trying their best to stand against the strong currents of this deep river with fishes for the whole day, they should be left alone.
I appreciate company as well! If you want to be around me, don't mind if I don't speak and don't force me to act different, I am perfectly fine. People don't realize that not everyone is the same, and if you give us the time, we can be great friends too!
Of course, we're happy being involved as long as we're not supposed to be a major part of the reason. But when we do find the right person, we can talk until the end of time. Because of observing and taking in so much from our surroundings, we have much more to share. And a little talk always relieves us, because we're humans too!
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AHHH I just kept on writing without reading much. I know it's a lot, but there's just, well, a lot.
I'm sorry if this isn't what you wanted! But well, I tried
That's very impressive. Thanks for actually reading, really! :P
Ah yeah. Typical Brainly
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You asked about Introverts “ Well that's me too ” :P
An Introvert is often thought as a quite, reserved & thoughtful individual ..
Introverts might be surprised to find that other people interpret the need to be alone as rude or dismissive.
People sometimes make the mistake of thinking that just because a person is quiet, it also means the person is shy. It is important to realize that there is a big difference between introversion, shyness, and social anxiety.
Introverts prefer to think before they speak. They typically don't enjoy a lot of chit-chat or small talk.
So, the next time you notice someone who is quiet and reserved, don't assume that they are shy or afraid of talking to others
→ They do have fun.
→ They aren't rude
→ Introverts Aren't Weird
Regards ~AnIntrovert ❤
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