what is your opinions about "good parents" concerning to an individual during different periods of developing time?
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Questions we might ask ourselves that focus on nurturing emotional health are:
How can we help our children
Feel confident and capable?
Believe in himself/herself?
Feel safe, secure, and loved?
Deal with stress and crisis?
Be aware of his own strengths and limitations?
Parent-Child Relationship
In addition to paying attention to our child's internal world, we need to assess the quality of our relationship with our child, considering such things as building:
Trust
Safety
Sense of caring
Concern
Commitment
Teaching and modeling the qualities that contribute to emotionally healthy relationships can help instill these qualities in our children and make it more likely that they will turn to us for guidance.
This is not an easy goal to achieve for many of us who were not taught by our parents to have strong bonds. And again, how will we know if we have done a good enough job? The relational health of an individual is even harder to measure than his emotional health