Question

What qualities should a young girl possess according to you

Answer 1

It depends on the kind of guy he is. If he likes what he looks at, he wants the girl to be good looking.

If he doesn't care about the looks, he goes for what kind of a person you are, your personality and what vibe does he get when communicating with you.

I would rather you go for the latter.

The best thing you could do make any guy attracted towards you is be happy when you are with him(Not in a mad way :D). Be happy so that he refers the times he spent with you as the most happy ones. Make sure he only gets positive vibes from you.

Answer 2

If my younger self asked me this question, here’s what I’d tell her (with all the love in the world):

Resilience/Grit/Persistence/Thick-skin
You haven’t failed until you’ve decided to quit trying.

Hunger/Determination/Obsession/Ambition/Drive
Don’t ‘let it go’. Embr*ace that god-da*mn chip on your shoulder, and channel it.

Growth Mindset: know you can learn, grow and adapt
Humans are liter*ally adaptation machines - it’s science. We were built to fail, adapt, learn and progress.

Self-belief
This is the ‘leap of faith’ that So*ren Kierke*gaard talks about.

Courage to constantly seek out, step into, and illuminate the unknown.
The only way to grow is to be comfortable only when you’re uncomfortable.

Self-reliance/Resourcefulness 
“If you need a helping hand, it’s at the end of your left arm.” - Audrey Hepburn

Self-awareness

Curiosity and a thirst for knowledge
Learn. Learning doesn’t happen in the classroom. 99% happens outside it. Take it into your own hands, and focus on the acquisiti*on of skills. The more skills you have, the more you increase your chances of success.

Never complain 
Either change it, or learn to make the most of it.

Take responsibility for your life
“Don’t get m*ad at others because life is kic*king your as*s.” - David Gog*gins

Patience
Years. Decades. You must have the patience to nourish something for decades and watch it grow.

Discipline 
If you have everything but discipline - go home. It’s futi*le.

Perspective
Maintain perspective - practice gratitude - count your blessings - take note of the little things - and measure your progress with the starting point as reference, not the end point.

Self-respect 
Ch*ase after your own respect. Do things that increase your respect for yourself for doing; challenging, difficult things. The most important relationship is the one with yourself.

In my opinion, those are the most important. 
(I know, I know, they’re a lot.)

But trust me, you may just thank me later.


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