Question

What's the reason for understandable feelins ?

Answer 1

Explanation:I see alot of people telling victims of abuse that they have to forgive their abuser or that wishing bad on their abuser make them just as horrible as the abuser Both of these things are awful to say .It takes alot to heal after abuser . No just resources but time effort a good support network . The effect is usually life- long and the work it takes to heal is immense and indescribable .Nobody has to forgive their abuserz . Nobody has to want what's best for them .There seems to be a very specific sort of personality imagined for a victim ; forgiving ,quiet . Abuse to expected to be treated like a lesson that has to be learned .It is not anyone's place to tell a victim of abuse how they should feel a bout their abuser