what will we do wen ours ruined our life
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Hey, I get it. I just ruined my life too. Most people answered this question as condescendingly as possible, and focused on the symantics of “completely ruined”. Then they try to balance that coldness with platitudes, screw that (unless you actually find it helpful).
On that note; I call my situation (the worst thing that could happen). Now, I know it's not the worst thing that could happen to anyone, or even the worst thing that could happen to me (I.e. Disease/fatality/etc.). But after 15 years of grueling, relentless effort, to be set back to where I started, with a new 10 year deficit, is the worst possible outcome of my past efforts, and the worst possible trajectory for my future.
What I’m saying is: lick your wounds (and don't let anyone tell you that you don't have the right to do so, or that you are ungrateful for what you have left, they're wrong). When you're ready, start over from scratch. Give up your aspirations, and work toward autonomy and self sufficiency. You may get more than you expect, but most people dont, and they gorge themselves on platitudes and cliches to fill the void. If you feel your life is ruined, dont pretend it's not, dont wrap yourself in guilt, just mourn the loss of yourself the way you would any loved one, and build a new self. If you can cultivate genuine humility and gratitude, people will flock to you, but it won't come easily, and affecting it is not the same as being it.
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