Question

when can one feel that one is becoming selfish or selfless​

Answer 1

Explanation:

Many people distinguish selfish people as those who take and selfless people as those who give. Generally speaking, “selfless” gets a warmer welcome and is more widely accepted as “good”, however I challenge both generalizations. Neither selfishness nor selflessness is good or bad. In fact, the two concepts are intricately linked.

Here’s my take on it: You can be both selfish and/or selfless; we all are. We may be selfish in some areas, yet completely selfless in other areas.