which is most important quality to spouse money,looks or brain nd why
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The ideal right, rational answer is this: brains.
They say that your brain is your primary sexual organ, anyway. It generates all the lust and passion you might feel for someone else, beyond that moment of baseline attractiveness.
But the practical, applied, real answer is this:
Start with both, as much as you can.
Then, if and as you get tired with that, trade for something different. People change, and sometimes the differences are insurmountable. Things change, too, that dramatically reveal things about you or your life partner that you might not have realized were as important to you as they are.
Age, specifically youth v. maturity, adds a third crucial element, once one of the partners is over 30, that powerfully influences perceptions of both brains and beauty and what's desired. When you're in your 20's, you'd hope you'd make a good choice, and that you know yourself well enough to make it last forever. But it usually takes a while to figure both of those things out for real. And when you're in your 40's, you might decide that someone who isn't that smart doesn't bother you so much, so long as they're kind. SImilarly, you might decide that you're done with the vanity or narcissism that you once forgave in your partner, and go for more intellectual depth.