Question

who is talking to amanda in this stanza​

Answer 1

One of her parents is speaking to her. Most probably it is her mother.

$\\ \\ \\ \\ \\ \\ \\ \\ \\ \\ \sf \colorbox{gold} {\red(ANSWER ᵇʸ ⁿᵃʷᵃᵇ⁰⁰⁰⁸} \\ and\\ \sf \colorbox{lightgreen} {\red❤ANSWER ᵇʸ ᶠˡⁱʳᵗʸ ᵇᵒʸ}$