why always girls have compromise during marriage?
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because of Indian old minds and myths
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Not if you want to make strides to becoming more equal for yourself and future generations.
You can not. Only he can, you can support him and encourage him to follow this process.
Here is the path to getting past your "keydagger" and "leveling up" past these hurts to a new kind of relationship. It will lead to better boundaries and knowing when to stand up and when to compromise.
First let them know that you understand and want to take a few weeks to think and talk about the situation so that you both are on the same page, you will at least have to be co-parents for the rest of your lives it is worth going slow.
Find and forgive all the hurts you can think of to forgive. This includes yourself, the details and support info is in our book "How Men Make Women Crazy and Visa Versa: Ending the Madness." Amazon, kindle and iTunes has an audio version.
You will find there are more feelings to feel after this forgiveness, below is a short list to explore and track what you feel. Do the tracking, it gives you clues as how to play to your strengths. There is an app to help on iTunes "Feeling Wheel"
After going through forgivenss, come back to it anytime you find something new to forgive. As you do this you will find a new focus, leaving out the 80% of life that can be distracting and focusing on what is really important to you and gives you the best results, the 20%.
From there practicing gratitude is vital. Being grateful and demonstrating it gives you new energy and begins a new vision of your life. Begin to project where you want to live your life and who with and how you want to live it.
This brings you to being mindful. This is no small task and the short version is that you are practicing being aware of your feelings and the feelings of those around you. This prepares you to communicate effectively (giving up on being right and focusing on being in relationship) and to execute the new vision that you have been building as you have been developing these disciplines.
The time it takes varies, givien daily work and accountabiity we see major upgrades to life in three to ten weeks. Good luck. Let us know how you do - solving problems is how things get done.
Here is the Feeling Wheel
You can not. Only he can, you can support him and encourage him to follow this process.
Here is the path to getting past your "keydagger" and "leveling up" past these hurts to a new kind of relationship. It will lead to better boundaries and knowing when to stand up and when to compromise.
First let them know that you understand and want to take a few weeks to think and talk about the situation so that you both are on the same page, you will at least have to be co-parents for the rest of your lives it is worth going slow.
Find and forgive all the hurts you can think of to forgive. This includes yourself, the details and support info is in our book "How Men Make Women Crazy and Visa Versa: Ending the Madness." Amazon, kindle and iTunes has an audio version.
You will find there are more feelings to feel after this forgiveness, below is a short list to explore and track what you feel. Do the tracking, it gives you clues as how to play to your strengths. There is an app to help on iTunes "Feeling Wheel"
After going through forgivenss, come back to it anytime you find something new to forgive. As you do this you will find a new focus, leaving out the 80% of life that can be distracting and focusing on what is really important to you and gives you the best results, the 20%.
From there practicing gratitude is vital. Being grateful and demonstrating it gives you new energy and begins a new vision of your life. Begin to project where you want to live your life and who with and how you want to live it.
This brings you to being mindful. This is no small task and the short version is that you are practicing being aware of your feelings and the feelings of those around you. This prepares you to communicate effectively (giving up on being right and focusing on being in relationship) and to execute the new vision that you have been building as you have been developing these disciplines.
The time it takes varies, givien daily work and accountabiity we see major upgrades to life in three to ten weeks. Good luck. Let us know how you do - solving problems is how things get done.
Here is the Feeling Wheel
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