why do indian parents micro manage their kids..??
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That's a good question. Mostly every Indian kid (particularly teenagers) face this situation.
In reality, it is just selfless care which is prevelant mostly in India.
If you take an example of foreign countries, parents control their kids just upto a certain age of maturation and leave them to do what they want.
But in India, our parents care and think about us till the very last moment of their lives.
I have asked my mother a few times out of frustation that why I can't do what I want. I have received the following answers :-
- You are too small to perform your will. ( PS - Am 15 y/o)
- You are my own meat and flesh and so you are my duty till my last breath.
- You will destroy your career if I let you do on your own.
First, I used to really frustated with this. But now I have understood really how much good it feels to call someone "maa".
And even till this day, she manages eveeything to tuitions to daily problems.
I like it indeed, on thinking that atleast someone cares and thinks about me in this cruel world.
Trust me, even if the whole world blames you, your mother will always be with you.
And for fathers, they are the Head of the Family. They are strict and they do punish us ( yeah a lot). But that's what helped me keep straight.
Thinking through a different angle, he pays your expenses till the day you get a job which is atleast 25 years.
Concluding, I really like this micro management. I know that when they will be gone I won't have anyone to take such care of me.
: Peace Out :
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