Why do people get attracted to their opposite genders?
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Becoz the way they think about opposite wale...yaa..sameer...it is common in this age but we should not be distract frm them and consenstrate on studies understood...buddy
The basic instincts makes looks the genetic value of what will the potential kids be like: strong, healthy, attractive.... (it may not be related to actual beauty standards as it is unconscious and dependent of your own genetics)
And the personality shows what it would be like to live with that person, how the potential kids would be educated, how smart they could get, how long they will be kept safe within the family.
Those are the origins of what we value for both of them.
So people usually went for looks as it was not mandatory for life survival to get raised by both parents.
Nowadays, personality gets more important as we live a lot longer together and therefore need aims in life that are compatibles, but a good genetic potential is still relevant as a healthy mind would not normally choose to reproduce with a risk for the health of it's kids.
It would therefore be quite a problem if you had only one trigger while looking for a real relationship: