why do people show fake cares, love and trust? only to hurt us? answer according to your experience.
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I met this person about 3 years ago in a confrence. He lived in another country and i thought it made him really interesting so i tried to keep in touch and we stayed in touch for two years talking often in facebook and sharing about our personal life to one another. We had a healthy normal friendship where we could help each other and just have that connection from far away. He was dating a girl for a very long time ( about 7 years) and around 6 months ago he told me they broke up not really specifying why other than the fact that they started dating so young and that they are very different. But around 3 months ago we were getting ready for another confrence which meant i would see him again. About a month before we slowly became more intimate and our conversations become more personal and at somepoint we suddenly found ourselves texting one another for almost the whole day. He then started telling me how if we lived in the same country he would definitely want to go on a date with me and slowly we started joking about how we are already married and made jokes that somehow felt more than just jokes. So slowly I grew some romantic feelings and told him about it. He took it with a lot of warmth and told me that while he would love to try because we live in different countries he just is not able to and wants me to experience the beautiful things in a relationship with someone and how long distance is not something that will work out good at the end. So I agreed with him and decided to go on with his terms. But right after he said all of this he started to completely act like he in love with me, asked me about my thoughts on children and what if one day we could have our own
Explanation:
Trust precedes love; we can only truly love someone that we can trust. Trust is something that is earned through actions. It is the sense of security that allows both parties to expose themselves fully without any judgments or fears. If someone can break your trust in any way, shape, or form, it isn't true love.People often hide emotions to protect their relationships. When someone you care about does something upsetting, you might choose to hide your annoyance. Yes, their actions bothered you. But if they react negatively when you tell them how you feel, you could end up triggering an even more painful conflict.
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