Question

Why do some us find it necessary to prove that we are better than others? write a paragraph on it

Answer 1

First, not all people do, but certainly some people do. The issue really is about internal validation. Emotionally healthy people have their own internal validation. Emotionally unhealthy people seek to find validation from external sources like other people. Metaphorically, think of a person with pockets. Healthy people take compliments and accomplishments etc and store them in their pockets. They can feel their full pockets and know who they are based on what they have done, and how full the pockets.

The emotionally unhealthy person, has holes in their pockets. No matter what they accomplish, or compliment they receive, they just cannot seem to store them. The need to continually find external source to validate themselves. When people continually put others down, or feel the need to be better than others. it really an attempt to fill their pockets with holes which cannot be filled.
Hope its helpful.