why do the parents not feel proud of u
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Most likely is because their life is bored, and wanted someone like you to excite them. (Seriously, if your parent is making accomplishment everyday, their outlook in life would not be so negative). Positive outlook in life is very much dependent on how they dealth their colleagues, their relatives, their friends
HERE'S SOME THINGS THAT U CAN DO TO MAKE THEM PROUD-
Parents feel proud of their children when they meet and achieve their goals. It can be getting good grades in school, getting into the sports team, graduating from college, and getting their first jobs.
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Your parents' feelings towards you aren't just about you, but also - mostly - about them. We are all a product of our upbringing and other factors which shape our values and behaviour, and that's the same for our parents. You didn't have the same upbringing or experiences as your parents, and you don't need their validation to be valid. If you're proud of yourself, that's what's important.
It requires empathy to be able to judge another person's actions and achievements in relation to their lives. For example, my daughter is at university, and spent a day tidying part of her room. I was immensely proud of her, because her depression means sometimes she finds it almost impossible to get out of bed. When she played me a song she had taught herself on the guitar, I cried, I was so proud of what she had achieved, as well as her beautiful voice.
When my father sent my teenage sisters over to England from the Philippines, he criticised them when they didn't have jobs within a month. I reminded him that they were away from home for the first time, in a new country, with a sister old enough to be their mother who they hadn't seen since they were babies. I said they were settling in very well, and he should be proud of them. He said, “I hope I will be”. He helped support his family since being a teenager, traveled the world with lucrative jobs and raised multiple families. In his eyes, his children have things much easier so should be able to do more, so he expects them to do at least as well as he did. But their lives are different, and the world is different.
I don't judge myself by my parents' standards, because the ruler they measure me against is themselves. That ruler isn't relevant to my life. I think about my own values, what's important to me, my own goals - where do I measure up against those?
If you're always measuring yourself against someone else's expectations, you're always going to disappoint either them, or yourself for not living your own life.