WHY DO WE FEEL SOME ATTRACTION TO SOME PERSON ??
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Why do we fall in love with someone we hardly know? Why does this sort of thing happen? If we don’t know them, how can we love them? I find myself in this situation, and it’s just not right because it breaks all social rules and conventions. I feel a very strong, happy pull towards a particular gentleman. It’s like my heart recognizes him and is so happy to hear his name and see him, but my head is telling me to stop being silly. I think he has a soft spot for me as well. Is this just some fleeting fantasy, or is his energy pulling me toward him? Are there spiritual reasons for why we feel so drawn to some people from the moment we meet them?
Explanation:
The first thing that struck me about your question is your assumption that if something breaks social rules and conventions, it’s just ‘not right.’I believe the only way to know what is truly right is to listen to our hearts, for there is all sorts of social conventions that are pretty crazy.
There is always a reason why we feel a certain way, but that doesn’t mean we should act on all our feelings. For example, we may feel like punching someone who makes us angry or like eating a huge bag of candy, but that doesn’t mean we’re wise to act on those impulses.
Often we distract ourselves with momentary obsessions to avoid facing feelings or issues that are overwhelming. Many people in unhappy marriages try to distract themselves by projecting their unfulfilled desires on a third party. This allows them to focus on something that feels good while avoiding upsetting or disturbing thoughts and feelings.