why do you think some people are so quiet ?
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Quiet people are often brilliant people. ☺ They are usually also deep thinkers. Sometimes they can be perceived as stand-offish but that is not their intent. They are simply more introverted and most of their dialogue happens internally rather than externally. They often think before responding, because when they don't think about their responses and instead speak on impulse, they tend not to say things the way they would have preferred to say them.
If you are dealing with a quiet person, please don't take their quietness or privacy personally. You will find that when they do talk about things, it’s more on a deeper level and less small talk. Its best not to take that personally either. It's not that they don't enjoy conversation with you, it's just that small talk does not come easily to them. In fact it can be draining - not you, the small talk. This is often the case too when talking on the phone. You may need to be the ‘driver’ on phone conversations, especially longer ones.
Find intriguing, thoughtful discussions to have with the ‘quiet’ person, and you will find a wonderful conversation partner!