Why feelings always hurts as expectations do ? Explain it .
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Not all expectations are painful . Only unreasonable expectations are painful .
Not everyone can scale the Mt Everest.
Not every student can expect to come out first in the class .
Not every athlete can win the race .
If your inclination is solely towards music , and you are forced to study Science subjects , you are not supposed to succeed .
The fact is we want to have the moon without realising our capabilities .
Now a days every student wants to pursue Engineering and wants to become an IITan. And most go to Kota for coaching . But everyone can't take the pressure and load . And the result is depression and failure and sometimes goes to the extreme of taking one's life .
Keeping up with the Jones has become a mania .
Even in love life what one expects ,in really , becomes completely different .
When someone is in love , they romanticise about a Dreamland ; but when they face the real life , their dreams are often shattered and have to go through the ups and downs of love and life .
Expectations Never hurt. Failures hurt. Who says feelings hurt. The only thing a person can do is to do thier best to fulfill there desires and expectations.
So just do your best do not panic for the future result. If you are actually doing everything best you will feel good and will be able to fulfill your expectations.
Even then if you fail so keep this in your mind that "Failure is the first step to success". And Failure is the best teacher..
Hope dis will help