Question

Why Is It That The Person That Makes You The Happiest Is The Same Person That Hurts You The Most?
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Answer 1

Hyy

You always hurt the one you love, the one you should not hurt at all;

It is easy to understand why someone who doesn't love another person might break the heart of this person-when we do not love those who love us, we are likely to hurt them. However, the above song refers to hurting the one we do love. How can one both love and hurt the same person?


Lovers can easily hurt the beloved without intending to do so. Because the lovers are so significant to each other, any innocent remark or action can be interpreted in a manner that the other person did not intend and hence be hurtful. For instance, someone might devote a lot of time to her work, thereby neglecting, and inadvertently hurting, her partner. The more time two people spend together, the greater the likelihood that this will occur. Our beloveds hold great significance for us and this makes these people a source of both great happiness and deep sadness; they can bring us great joy, but they can also hurt us deeply.

In situations in which we have nothing of value to lose, we seldom experience disappointment. In love, which involves our happiness and many of our most precious experiences, there is a great deal to lose. Hence, disappointment and frustration, and consequently hurt, are common. It has been said that completely blissful love does not exist. Indeed, in a survey of over 500 lovers, almost all of them assumed that passionate love is a bittersweet experience. Similarly, it has been found that people low in defensiveness have more experiences of love than do highly defensive people. This link suggests that to love is to make oneself vulnerable in ways that enhance the possibility of pain.


These and other considerations indicate how easily you can hurt the one you love without intending to do so. However, the explanation for deliberately hurting the person you love is far more complex. Certainly, one major factor in hurting the beloved deliberately is related to the central role that mutual dependency plays in love.

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Answer 2

Your love  ( I believe this is what hurted us the most, because we made ourselves so vulnerable to pain.  The thought of being accepted with love and we expect this person to represent the love of our parents, siblings and friends. Some much pressure for this group,  and we ended up being hurt. We build up a heap of expectations and when our bucket list is not fulfilled we are affected.)

And the main reason we get more hurted in our deep heart because at a certain point of our life we aspect more from them and can't accept the betrayal from them..

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At last having a smile on the face is the best way to face the world because after all this no one has guts to explain what happened and getting sympathized is what hurts the most..

So smile is the best mask to stay away from the world..

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