Question

why our parents always tell us to study never tell us to play as now there is more scope in games rather than in studies

Answer 1

I remember my dad being very strict about my academics. He was a real hot head back then due the work pressure. As far as I remember we hardly ever talked about anything apart from my studies. There was always a fear mounted within me whenever I wanted to talk to him. He used to tell me about why getting good grades is important and where will I end if I don't study.

Trust me I had the same feelings too,but never was frustrated or upset about it. Our parents always want us to live a better life than the one they have given to us.  Parents won't be there to take care of us forever. They have seen many bad seasons and hard times. All they wish is  their child should not go through the same.

Its been seven years now since I have moved out for studies. Trust me the world is very difficult place without your parents around. Until my BE final year I remember my dad asking me if I was taking my studies seriously. The day I got my first job (which was a few months back) there was a new glow on my dads face. Its was also the first time we hugged each other. Best the feeling of all is to see your parents smiling at you.

As far as your question, I would suggest you to just listen to what they say. You might not feel doing all the things they want you to do but trust me buddy its all for your good and one day you too will realise it. 

Note: Excuse me for wrong grammar or may be my English. I'm not much of a writer but then you don't need to be a writer to share your experience.

Answer 2

First thing is that, our parents have already passed their childhood by observing it. Our mother father parents had also advised them not to play just focus in their studies. And now our parents in adult age have realized the importance of education. And why should they take difficulties in studies because the easier things are bad as they can be achieved easily but..... the difficult things are best as they take time for achievement and this results in becoming an IAS officer, IPS officer.
What do you think the is it easier to becoming an IAS officer?? Bah!! The IAS officers had already understood the importance of taking risk in studies. And now why our parents tell us to study because they don't want that you should be an engineer, or doctor! They only want to give you or advice to achieved higher or highest position so you may get a high amount of respect. They don't worry about your salary but your achievement.


I am very very sorry if I have said any word that hurt your feelings. Thank you!!