Why people are so bad ? Why they can't see others happiness? Why they are always jealous of others? Why they always want to hurt others?
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No one dares to say it out loud, but it happens often: we’re not happy when others are happy. All humans are vulnerable to this because feeling envious is just human nature.
When we love someone, we’re supposed to be happy for them when things go their way and cry with them when they’re sad. That’s how things should be. But in reality, that doesn’t always happen. We want to feel happy for others, but sometimes end up feeling just the opposite way.
“Our envy always lasts longer than the happiness of those we envy.”
-François de La Rochefoucauld-
Most times we’re not capable of admitting it. We simply congratulate others while we’re seething on the inside. Or we even try to belittle their accomplishments with a “But…” or “Be careful, it may not be what you think it is”. Deep inside, we know their success frustrates us somehow. Why does that happen? How can we change that?
When other people’s happiness bothers us
It doesn’t always bother us when others are happy. Sometimes, we may genuinely feel proud of their success. It’s a wonderful feeling that fills us with joy and strengthens our relationship with them. Thus, you may ask yourself why you feel envious in other situations.
First, let’s get something straight: we’re all human and can feel any emotion, whether good or bad. Thus, although it’s not something to be proud of, we shouldn’t punish ourselves for feeling envious of someone we love’s success.
It bothers us that the other person is happy because we’re not happy. Maybe we’ve worked hard to get a similar outcome, but that other person reached their goal and we didn’t. We value them, but it’s impossible not to think about our unfulfilled desires.
Without wanting to, we compare their happiness to our sadness and we decide that it’s unfair.
Other people aren’t a reflection of who you are
All this happens to us when we see the other person as a reflection of ourselves. In other words, we perceive their life as if it was our life.