Question

Why some people are having so much attitude that they don't care about others feelings?​

Answer 1

Answer:

They just care about themselves

Answer 2

Explanation:

Because feelings are a woman’s territory and we overvalue more masculine personality traits like being outgoing, ‘classically’ smart, and take charge over being emotive, shy, and intelligent in how people express their feelings.

We have a long and storied record of discounting the feminine. It’s sad but true that most people see feelings as touchy-feely nonsense, rather than as true guides to how we compose and present ourselves, and how we view our lives. They are seen as secondary to being smart and outgoing, where you hide your feelings, even making feelings and intelligence be on opposing sides of the field.

When a girl tearfully expresses her emotions our culture these days is to make fun of her. Some people even get very hung up in ‘toxic displays of emotion’ or ‘emotional manipulation.’ How funny that a girl is emotionally manipulative when we are upset, and an upset man is just upset, perhaps even righteously so while girls like me are never afforded the benefit of the doubt.

Our culture these days and since time immemorial has valued the opposing qualities of emotional people. Whereas more emotional people maybe shy to avoid the over-burdening of feelings they can feel from others, we value the ones who are outgoing without expressing themselves emotionally.

Whereas people who are more emotive, may struggle with ‘classical’ expressions of intelligence, those who know the facts without the feelings are viewed as more contributing to society.

Whereas more emotional people may not want to take charge due to knowing how complicated it can be to deal with the hurt feelings of a group, we value those who unquestionably take charge, and may not consider the emotions of the people they work with.

In the end I believe nobody cares about people’s feelings because we still view the unemotional working man as superior to the emotional working woman, who uses very different coping strategies, has different jobs, different takes on the same situation and why? Because we always value the masculine over the feminine, which is still seen as ‘weaker.’

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