Question

Would you still be able to love someone after they’ve been unfaithful?

Answer 1

Yes, absolutely. I would never have believed (nor considered it) before it happened to me. I love my husband - he is a warm and loving man. We have been married for two decades, raised a family and we still have fun together. YET I cheated on him. Shouldn't he have been enough for me…?

I suppose I continued to want all the things my husband provided me with…..and MORE.

More what though?…I thought he provided me with all my needs.

However, what he could not, and could neverreplicate was the sheer unadulterated thrill of illicit meetups with another man. Not particularly for the sex - but something else. Something, even now, I cannot clearly put my finger on.

Like I said, I never thought you could love someone, yet cheat. I have (cautiously) approached the subject of infidelity with my husband (who is thankfully unaware of my deception) and his response was an unequivocal No - ‘Why would I cheat when I have everything I want here with you at home’.

Yet, consciously I have everything I want at home… Maybe the issue was that I wanted something a little more edgy…a forbidden excitement? that I don't get at home. I still don't fully understand.

Answer 2

yes but if she or he realise thier mistake and will do not do it again