Question

Write a essay on the topic throw the light on the role played by the parents in this child development and child duties towards parents in 150 to 200 words

Answer 1

The other form of parenting is a common case in India. Anyone can experience these conflicts arising in every middle-class family. The story always starts with parents’ dream but the child’s dream sometimes completely different. There comes then the difference in the mind-sets and the argument ends with uncomfortable situations. Somewhere we are all aware of this.

But the point is, why does this happen? And why is not it so easy to avoid? Responding to the situation, my friend, Mridang Lodha says,‘The conflicts arise where parents do not trust or have less faith on the independence of the child’s thinking process and also how well can he manage things. So I think from day one, if you show yourself as a confident and articulate decision maker, the growing confidence of your parents will pay in future. Also our generation only knows less of talking and more of arguing. It would be better if we could discuss things with our parents but not debate. However, the parents should also be open to ideas.’’

There are few cases where parents completely live in their children’s dreams and forget the essence of reality. Sometimes parents forge their failed dreams or goals in the impressionable minds of their children. The father who wanted to be a doctor wants his son to be a doctor and the mother who wanted to be an actress wants her daughter to be a super model. Like this many parents, deliberately or sub-consciously, have been remoulding the naïve thoughts. Addressing the issue, Dr. Marks, who has been working as a psychiatrist and psychotherapist from Atlanta says, ‘‘allow your child the important lessons of disappointment and failure. Finding out for themselves whether they have the ability and skill to realize their dreams helps children to refine and restructure their dreams into attainable goals. ’’

In addition to the above points, it is our neighbours and society who put this barrier between child and parents. No matter which part of India you live in, you can’t just deny the fact that there are constantly people amidst your society who do nothing else than igniting family issues and pulling a fast one. But our parents strongly believe them based on some meaningless relationships. I still have no clue why our parents follow these renegades. In the name of some fake bonds these outsiders play with sensitive cases and leave those susceptible. Here I would like to request to all reverend senior citizens of India, lovable uncles and aunties please to try to avoid these conflictions. Please don’t unnecessarily involve yourselves to impair the precious bond between a kid and his parents.