Write a letter to your dad explain in why you prefer this other course to medicine,and why he should allow you to make your choice
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Family support is crucial. I was in that spot many times. First, they make good decisions for you and happily watch you rise and shine. Then you can make your own decisions an they think, oh boy we made so good decisions for him lets keep up the good work. And that is where the error is prone to occur. Any successful adventure is up for that.
I did what they wanted and rose fast and fell deep. They had no other choice than support me. Now I convinced it was the right way, because I learned so much. Yes, otherwise what would I have learned on my own other path? Maybe more, maybe less. I do not know.
Now I am happy with my experiences and I am grateful for my parents forcing me. You can start to study medicine just to make them happy and get in touch on that track with the love of your life, maybe a girl who is a brilliant natural at medicine and later you change tracks to what you feel is your true calling. Your parents would be happy with that result and you too. They might love your future wife as their daughter.
You might learn by studying medicine some great insights that support your true calling? In fact, it is always good to know we have not all the answers, especially regarding our true calling, and keep the focus wide. Not eyes wide shut.
I learned you do not fight with your parents about dreams, they know about your dreams even before you ever dreamed about them.