Question

You should understand the relevance of your suffering

Answer 1

sufferings are small crosses given by god to carry in certain stages in our lives

Answer 2

The thing i learnt from my life is all about the perception you have about life. A positive one is helpful. My perception of suffering is that there is no suffering, just the nature’s way of forcing you to improve and change to get the best out of you. People are destined to do greater and far more important things that will have a larger impact on their lives and on the lives of other.

But, people are adamant to change. They like the way things are going, over a period of time, never realizing their true potential. And anyone who asks them to do thing in a certain manner to bring about an improvement in them, seems like an enemy. There is an old saying “A Wise Enemy Is Better Than A Foolish Friend”. Why because with a wise enemy you have to strive harder, think faster to be ahead of them.

Hope you have seen the movie “RUSH”. If Niki Lauda and James Hunt had not been enemies, they might not have reached the level they were destined for. Both worked harder to beat each other and hence, brought the best out of them.

Times are changing and so are the technologies, people, climate etc. But if you dont change with time, if you don’t try to improve yourself, get ahead of yourself, then you are bound to suffer. Mother nature will force you to change, to improve. This some call as suffering, i call as nature’s hand-holding.

Likewise there are no good or bad experiences, its all about learning. Everything you do, makes you learn something. Keep that up and you will succeed. More than success its about satisfaction. When you give your best, its gives more satisfaction then reward you might get.