You used harsh words to deny yourmother, what she wanted you to do.write a letter of apology tomother promising her it won't happen again
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You apologize in a manner that is congruent with your natural way of communicating. Some people write better than they speak, some like to use a card’s greeting, some use music. Use a method that will show your sincerity. Use language that is soft and that shows your understanding of why you are apologizing.
You might want to attempt to explain your reasoning about what happened…you will need to decide that. However, you can ask, as part of your apology, could she help you understand a better way to _____ [whatever the situation involved]. You could decide on a single or sign from her if she feels you are going in that direction again, and remind you that you need to stop and think. If you are familiar with the theory of me words, it will help to use this. An example, YOU—-You didn’t tell me what time to come home, ME…I should have asked what time I needed to be home minutes for her to gather her thoughts. Or, don’t feel that she hasn’t listened if she doesn’t respond right way, or ever. Some people are overwhelmed by emotion and just have difficulty speaking/writing/communicating about emotional ideas. In a few days, or couple of weeks, you might mention again that you are sorry for what happened. Express your appreciation of something she does for you and ask if she would like to talk. Then let it go and try to continue with a harmonious relationship.
Being a mother [or father/parent/care giver] is very difficult and there is not text book, written how=to’s, lessons, or workbook on how to parent. There are days as a mother that I literally would make dozens of small decisions about my children and never really know whether they were to right or wrong decision for my childrens future life. And when you parent, do you know that there is NO FRIDAY. Nope. Because the responsibility, the decision making, the care and attention, the discipline, the time needed never ends whether it’s Friday or Tuesday or March or December.
The best way to apologize is just to be yourself and be sincere. Find a time when you can speak with her in private and tell her how you feel. If you are apologizing for something said in anger then tell her calmly what made you angry and ask her to forgive you for what you said. If you're apologizing for something you've done then explain why you did it (if it was intentional) or offer to replace it if we're talking about something you've broken.
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