Your father is concerned upon your failure
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First, it is necessary to work hard and be punctual to not get failed. If a person gets failed so he should not despair because failure is not a disgrace. He should try again and again to get succeed. No one is perfect. We learn from our failures. The poem "Try Again" by T.H Palmer is best for a courage and hope to success without any fear.
What to do if your father is concerned upon your failure?
First, thing to do is to say "Sorry". Just show it that you really mean it. Tell him:
- How much sad you are. (Tip: Bring tears in your eyes. Use onion for tears and red makeup/color to apply on nose to appear sad and heartbroken.)
- Why you failed?
- What are your weaknesses?
- How to eliminate your weaknesses?
- How to fight your weakness?
- What you learned from your failure?
- Hug and kiss him on the face or hands, saying sorry again and show it that you really mean it and you are embarrassed. Just appear to be innocent.
- Tell him "Thank You so much for working hard for me so that I could study, I really am sorry to give you bad news this time but I promise God willing next time I will also work hard and I will make you proud of myself. I really love you, father. I really feel bad."
- At last when he responds you, tell him, "Failure is not a disgrace. Do not despair. All I need is to work hard by trying again and again without losing hope and courage. what I need is to be fearless and achieve hope and courage to success next time."
Suggestion:
If you tell this to your father so he will never be angry at your failure or if he got so at least he would not be mad at you or furious. Every one has feelings. Parents love their kids. When their kids are honest with them while respecting them, it really makes them happy.
I hope it helps.
Thank You.
Peace, be to the bright Side.
