2. How do you think others will feel about these changes?
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Be Patience to handle other’s reaction at first. Because if you want to change your perspective of others then you’ll have to imagine yourself in their shoes. And as much as it sounds it isn’t that easy.
Why I said you to be patience is when you try to understand them or why the particular person behaves the way they are, then you’d have to talk to them, and know them. This isn’t easy as they may be violent sometimes, they sometimes may say or do things that they don’t mean otherwise and it’d require your patience and tolerance to still not judge them by the single act they did.
I’d give you an example that happened with me in college few days back (I won’t write any real names here as many of my friends use Quora)
So once, a good friend of mine let’s call her X was sharing something with me about another girl (it was some relationship advise or thing that she wanted me to know) so what happened is that another girl let’s call her Y came to us or in words of X followed us to hear the things. X didn’t liked Y because she felt that Y always try to get into things or places where she shouldn’t be and so X told me how weird Y is. My response was pretty bland, I didn’t wanted to judge Y so soon and one the reason is that most of my classmates have a healthy relationship with me thus I take my time to make a statement.
Later, it happened that Y came along with me in some event and there again she was just like the way she was with X and then only I realized that she doesn’t intend to disturb people’s privacy but she genuinely doesn’t realize when she should leave. And this is not something because of what a person should be called clingy. When it comes to me I noticed this behavior of hers only when X pointed it out to me, I don’t focus on details generally and this is my behavior. So I guess it was kind of normal for her to act so.
Unfortunately, I know X and I know if I try to defend Y she won’t listen. But I will surely try to.
We are humans, we all have defects but you can only be better when you try to be calm and read people. Surely it requires times and patience but when you know why are people the way they are then you’d be more wise and thus you’d value humans. You’d improve yourself.Also, this can help you not to take things personally and thus no one can ever destroy your mental peace that easily!
So if you want to change the way you think of others, observe them.