5 things to say to yourself when you are tempted to do something wrong.
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Explanation:
1) I have to focus on my goal instead of doing wrong things
2) I have to be my parents Pride
3) I can't do something which can hurt my parents and make my family feel guilty .
4) I should concentrate on my studies and focus on my passionate work
5) I should control myself from doing wrong and I should be ready always for my bad days
Explanation:
People pleasers come in many forms. I’ve met with business leaders who lost sleep because they were terrified of confrontation. And I’ve seen entrepreneurs fail because they couldn’t stand to make a decision that wasn’t popular.
Their reasons for trying to make people happy vary. For some, it’s a learned behavior that originates in childhood. For others, the attempt to make everyone happy stems from the desire to be polite.
If you tend to say yes to things that you don’t want to do, or you avoid speaking up because you don’t want to upset anyone, here are five things you should remember
- . You aren’t responsible for other people’s emotions.
Whether you tend to do everything your partner wants, or you strive to make your co-workers like you, your people-pleasing efforts bear too much responsibility. Everyone is in charge of their emotions. You can’t make anyone feel happy.
2. People pleasers are easily manipulated.
Quite often, you can spot a people pleaser a mile away. And the more an individual says yes to requests, the more things are asked of her.
People pleasers become easy targets. Someone may ask favors of them by saying things like, “I hate to ask you this, but…” or “I wouldn’t ask anyone else, but you’re such a good friend.” Whether you feel guilted into doing something, or you feel honored that you’ve been entrusted with a favor, you may be easily manipulated when your goal is to please people.
3. Your choices will always be unfavorable to some people.
There isn’t a single service or product that will please everyone. Just look at product reviews. One person says it’s the best thing since sliced bread. The next person says the same product was a complete wipe out
4. Trying to please people drains your resources.
Trying to please everyone will rob you of mental strength. The more you think about whether someone is going to be upset or how to phrase your decision in a way that isn’t offensive, the fewer resources you’ll have to devote to the decisions that matter most.
5. Staying True to Your Values
People pleasing can become a bad habit that causes you to lose sight of your values—either your personal values or your organization’s mission. Learning to tolerate people being upset with you can be hard, but it’s essential to reaching your goals.