Question

Give reason for us being reluctant to make friends with some stranger but being comfortable with some even after meeting them for the firs time

Answer 1

Answer:

There is a thing called matching of mental wavelength. We meet new people every now and then in our life. Some of them stays forever and some of them fades away.

It's not about being stranger, it's more about sharing same thought process, mental compatibility with that person you have just met.

Those who shares same mental wavelength, seems to read your mind without you even saying a word.

And also there are some people whom we meet, has different thought process than ours. Not necessarily they are wrong, but somehow we feel reluctant in opening up infront of them.

This is a basic human psychology and this is perfectly normal to find strangers with similar thought process more comforting.