have you ever done or said something that you regret? what did you to make up for it, or how did you apologize for it
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Apparently ,I feel so much guilt by seeing this question. Here it goes. we(my boyfriend and I) were about to celebrate our first anniversary. I admit that I felt that I had for once achieved something(In this case a good relationship). We were one month away to our anniversary. We had been together since the mid-June. I had been a frequent visitor to their home and so was he in my home. I was close to his family members. It so happened that I was to tutor a young boy in the ninth grade or as form one as it goes here in the education system who preferred my boyfriend’s place to mine since they were friends. I would teach the young boy using examples through my phone which I had already downloaded. As I was teaching him(the boy), my phone’s battery died and it had to be charged in order to communicate with my parents on what time I would reach home. I had a clear conscience when I was giving him my phone since I trusted him. He(My boyfriend) gave me his phone for the time being to continue teaching .I later on finished teaching the young boy and it was around 7pm when we started walking home with my boyfriend. He bought me some fries and soda to eat when I was home. I did not notice anything wrong with him. The week was over and we had the weekend to ourselves. We had planned to go on a date but I refused to go on that due day. We talked over the phone and we agreed to go for an evening walk. I was relieved that he was not angry at me though what I did was wrong. As we walked, he told me that there was something that he needed us to talk about. As far as I knew, I was not in trouble since we had all been okay. He then started to talk about my childhood friend .I was honest about him since there was nothing to hide .He the mentioned of another person, male person. I sure told him there was nothing to talk about. He then proceeded to tell me of things that had questioned my morality about this other guy. I was reluctant to tell him but since my brain realized that he had gone through my phone, I spilled it out, not everything since he had seen the rest by himself. To be honest, I had earlier on planned to end things with this other guy who had been flirting with me but since I cared too much, I never did. I had planned to tell him about 2 months earlier .He was devastated and so angry because of how much I had hurt him. To be sincere, I never meant to hurt him that much as I had planned to end things with him before our anniversary. I am guilty of cheating however the small extent it was and I will forever be haunted for hurting such a great guy. I later on realized he had switched on my phone and gone through all my text messages. I am guilty, however guilty but that was never no happen. I am so sorry if you ever come across this reply on this question. I never really wanted to hurt you. Forgive me wherever you are.