Question

how can we stop dependent on others

Answer 1

"Enjoy every moment and learn". Learning daily will nourish you. It will widen the horizons of your brain. The more you read the more good you become, you'll explore new avenues, find out more things to do and make your life independent. 
Start taking your decisions by yourself, small or big. Ask advice from people and don't get influenced. 
But we humans cannot be completely independent. We need people around us, human beings crave for happiness, being alone and not depending on others will not keep you happy in the longer run. So once you've have established your career you can be financially independent but emotionally we need the support of other people. It need not be your close one, a stranger might save your life at that moment your life depended on him.
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