how can you say that human beings write his or her destiny himself or herself
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Absolutely and unquestionably. Our destiny is defined and designed by choices we make today. Our tomorrow is the direct result of decisions made today.
If a person doesn’t want to “be that guy” in ten years who is living on alcohol and drugs so that his entire existence revolves around acquiring and taking those things? Then he practices moderation and habit management now.
A recent high school graduate sees a guy sweating in the hot sun mowing a lawn and silently says to himself “that won’t be me.” Then he should probably enroll in further education.
A lady sees a friend of hers in the hospital. The lady’s husband beat the living daylights out of her. Her right eye will never work right again, and the doctors are planning oral surgery to extract numerous teeth that broke off level with the gum, en route to a life with dentures starting at age 29. She vows to herself “I won’t tolerate that from a man who says he loves me.” Then she should kick her man to the curb and close all lines of communication if he ever raises his hand to strike her.
Some say “destiny”, I see it as being another word for “future”. Tomorrow is built on the actions of today made with the knowledge of yesterdays. Some things are out of our hands, but so much of our destiny or future is well within our realm of control.
My future hasn’t been written yet, but the decisions and choices I make today will be a part of it, as much as a stitch is part of a quilt. I want a good future, so the only choices I make are ones with that in mind. Getting drunk now might be nice, and once in a while it probably is, but done too severely and too frequently, I’ll wreck my liver later. I can eat scrambled eggs floating in belted butter and enjoy it, but I’ll end up with high cholesterol later. I can go out and pursue ladies to interact with intimately and take no precautions and I can be dead of AIDS in a decade.
Choices define destiny. It hasn’t been written yet, but every decision you make today is writing it line by line. It’s for this reason that it seems wise and prudent to make sure those lines are worth looking for.
Because without the decision of the one's person nobody can force them to choose any other destiny otherwise they will not do well in that direction.