how do you distinguish a friend from a foe
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A friend is a person who has faith in you in the time when no other have , he will always praise , help you and will never be jealous from you . If a friend is jealous from you , then he is a foe.
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Now that's a tricky question to answer.
I guess you can't. The only difference really is that person's intentions and opinions of yourself. As we all know, friends become enemies, and enemies become friends.
That's due to changing circumstances, relationship growth and many other factors. It's not something you can really categorically measure, as the whole point behind an enemy, is that it's specifically your enemy. Whether they stole your relationship, kicked your dog or ate all your cheese, you have a specific reason for disliking/hating this person.
Therefore, with it being such an individualist and speculative term, it's not really measurable.
Basically, you don't know someone is your enemy until they are, by which point you'll obviously know the difference. For all you know, your best friend could wish you dead. And until they tell you or act on it, you may never know.
I suppose there's quite a deep level of trust involved in friendships.
So I suppose you can’t really know, but through a combination of trust, communication, honesty and action, you learn to build a level of mutual respect and appreciation that constitutes the foundation if a friendship.
Having said that, there are 3 tried and tested ways to determine who your real friends are. Love, depression and time.
Start a new relationship or get into something serious and you'll start to notice changes in your friends. The same goes for having children.
Now obviously depression is far from the only mental poison out there, but I know for me at least, it's been the longest and hardest problem I've dealt with. The same goes for any number of mental health problems, disabilities and grief. Lose a family member, find yourself in the hole with the black dog, get a diagnosis. Any number of this will tell you a lot about the people around you.
Best of all, time. The simplest thing you can do is wait and see. Finish school or college, move away, or just sit around and wait. Give it a week, a month, a year. Many will simply remove themselves and you will find yourself naturally losing contact with people and moving on. Those who you still call up after a hard day, or you tell great news to.
The ones that were there through the heart breaks, new jobs and lost jobs, deaths, depressions and all of life's spices and are still there to say I love you. Those are the people you don't want to let go of.
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