how do you handle the failure and sucess
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First, just accept how you feel. ...
Remember: you're not a failure just because you had a setback. ...
Be constructive and learn from this situation. ...
Remind yourself: anyone who wants to do things of value in life will fail. ...
Let it out into the light. ...
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You need to understand that both success and failure are not ultimate ends, rather they are stepping stones towards your progress and development as a human being. The problem with both success and failure lies really in how we handle and interpret them.
Let’s look at failure. If you let life failures define you (which is a trap a lot of us fall into) then you will never look at the lessons learned and you will never improve. If you view it as a tough life lesson then you are guaranteed to come out of it much better, stronger and wiser - and this is what we call experience. We don’t get experience in life by having things the easy way. We fall, get back up and move on (with the lessons learned). From my experience, whenever you ‘fail’ you need to tell/ask yourself these things:
1. This does not define me. (reassurance)
2. Why did this happen? Do I need to learn more/work harder or was it just bad luck? (reflection)
3. What could I do next time in order to avoid such a situation? (lessons learned/experience)
Success, on the other hand, has a similar yet different turn. First of all, success is pretty much overrated nowadays especially with all the social media going on around us with everyone sharing almost only their moments of glory and happiness. I can understand that people probably do not want to talk about their failures or moments of ‘down’ on social media, but if you have a deep and meaningful conversation with any of your friends or colleagues (especially the ones you view as ‘successful’) you will find that they’ve faced many bumps throughout life. The fact is this is what shaped them and made them who they are. Another tricky thing with success is that it can fool you to believe you’re ‘good enough’ or ‘unstoppable’; and this is where some people get over-confident and fall pretty soon afterwards. Don’t fall into that trap and always reflect/analyze on success or failure to understand the reasons why; rather than quickly judging on yourself. Things you need to tell yourself after a ‘success’:
1. Embrace it! (celebration/assurance)
2. Why or how did this happen? Was it something that I did well or was it just luck? (reflection)
3. Thank those who stood by you and helped you grow! (gratitude)
4. Build on the things that went well and shine on! (lessons learned/experience)
So again; it is not success or failure that are the problems but how we react to them and that is a choice. That is all I can say and do keep this quote in mind:
“Success is failure turned inside out.”
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