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how to laugh when he is sad teach him there is no shame in tears . explain mate!!​

Answer 1

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Steer him away from envy if you can and teach him the secret of quiet laughter. Teach him if you can – how to laugh when he is sad, teach him there is no shame in tears. Teach him there can be glory in failure and despair in success. Teach him to scoff at cynics.

Answer 2

Answer:Make ‘Em Laugh  

Give people a genuine laugh and you’ve put them at ease and made a quick connection. However, you’re not a comedian. That’s not your job. Telling a joke that doesn’t land can let the wind out of your sails pretty quickly. So, if you don’t want to tell jokes, don’t. You can still get people to think differently, feel differently, and do what you want them to do. You can inspire them. You can thrill them. You can move them. All without ever telling a joke.

However, humor is the spice of life: a little here or there goes a long way.  Also, it’s a gift that keeps giving: when an audience laughs, they settle in to enjoy themselves and you loosen up and gain confidence to deliver your best. So, even though I’m not suggesting you hit the stand-up comedy circuit, there are some simple joke-telling tricks that will have them rolling in the aisles or at least wearing a genuine smile. (And, if you have any desire to be a professional speaker, you’ll make a lot more money if you can make people laugh.)

And, let’s be honest, who wouldn’t love to be able to make people laugh? It really is a fantastic feeling to get people giggling. Their faces brighten up and their demeanor lightens up. Interestingly, I’ve found that the biggest laughs in a speech often come from improvised moments. Just recently, I delivered a Book Yourself Solid® keynote for Transamerica®, one of the country’s largest financial services firms. Prior to my speech, there was a panel discussion on compliance issues around texting with clients. Apparently, it’s a big no-no.  So, of course, what did I do? I opened my speech by saying, “My advice to you: send texts to your clients.” On paper, it’s not particularly funny. In the moment it killed. It broke the tension that had built up in the room over this issue. The audience roared with laughter. I took a bow and said, “Thank you very much for having me. Good night!” and walked off stage. I came back ten seconds later.

So, if you’d like to try your hand at preparing a joke in advance or just want to learn how to find humor in the moment, here are eleven insights that will help you.

1. A joke is often told in three acts.  If you know how to tell a story, then you know how to tell a joke. Most jokes are told like stories.  They include exposition, conflict, and a resolution.  Suspense is key.
2. Some jokes are told by putting together the completely unexpected, as in the two-story joke.  Story one leads down one path.  Story two takes you down an alternate path that is totally unexpected.  Story one is the setup and story two is the punchline.  Here’s an example from Mel Brooks

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