Reply Letter from Husband to Wife who is ill treated by her Mother in law
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I know this is not what exactly u have asked but you can take it as a reference (I tried my best)
To you Mother in law,
It would have been really nice to have opened this letter with a pleasant and loving salutation, but your unpleasant and hateful behavior does not give me much of a choice but to say it as it is.
I am the wife of your son and the future mother of any grandchild/ren that he will give to you. I express gratitude to you for raising my husband to be the man I love and adore. He is a loving spouse, and once he is able to get past your emotional tentacles and the years of enmeshment you entrenched in him, he will truly be a gem. That being said, I acknowledge your role in his life, now if only you can do the same to me. I have known my husband, your son for more than 10 years. We were very good, platonic friends for years before we fell in love. Unknown to you during the years of our friendship he shared some of his deepest darkest secrets with me. I knew his fears and comforted him during difficult times, while he did the same for me; these are the things true friends do. One of the things he confided in me was his fear that you felt he should never leave home, and expected him to reside at your residence for the rest of his life. He felt stifled and wanted a way out from your family home. He felt that you and the rest of the family were preventing him from achieving his goals. I guess you have no idea he felt that way, far less that he has expressed it to someone else.
You actively looked for and found flaws in every woman he dated, even the well cultured, polite girlfriend he had a relationship with before we began dating. You openly disliked her and made no qualms about your feelings. Can you remember when her father died and she asked him whether she can place his name on the obituary as her significant other? She was so well mannered, she didn’t just assume because they were dating that she should, she asked him. He came home and mentioned to you and your mini you, your toxic, youngest daughter that you will see his name in the obituary. You both threw a tantrum and said hell no! Why? What was so wrong about that? Do you have any feelings for others? Her father had just died for goodness sakes! You went as far as to let her know when she called for him later during the day, that you do not think she should put your son/brother’s name in the obituary. The poor, distraught woman already in a state of grief, simply left it out and told my husband about your actions weeks after. What is really wrong with you and your daughter?
Signing off;
Your daughter in law,
The future mother of your grandchild/ren,
Your first son’s wife and the love of his life