Question

she said to me,"Have you ever been to Kashmir?"

Answer 1

the sentence is in direct speech...

Answer 2

Halo..

# The sentence is in direct speech..

# Let's change into indirect speech...

# She asked me whether I had ever been to Kashmir.

# Said to is changed to Asked...

# Quotations are removed and whether is added...

# You is changed to I

# Have is changed to Had

Hope it helps...

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